So, you have been daydreaming about packing your bags, booking a ticket, and going on a solo adventure. Just you, your bucket list, your playlist, and your passport.
Whether you are headed to the Maldives for beach therapy or Kenya for some safari-level soul searching, solo travel for female travelers is a whole vibe. But it is exciting, freeing, and a little scary, too.
But worry not. This post is your trusted guide to navigating the beautiful world of solo travel as a woman, a Nigerian woman, especially. We know it comes with its unique flavor of concerns, blessings, and cultural spice.
Let’s dive in.
Contents
- 0.1 1. Confidence Is Your First Passport
- 0.2 2. Research Like a CIA Agent
- 0.3 3. Stay Somewhere Safe, Not Just Cheap
- 0.4 4. Travel Light, Pack Smart
- 0.5 5. Blend In, Don’t Stand Out
- 0.6 6. Share Your Itinerary With Trusted People
- 0.7 7. Learn Some Basic Local Words
- 0.8 8. Trust Your Gut, Always
- 0.9 9. Have a Safety Kit
- 0.10 10. Have Fun, But Stay Wise
- 1 Bonus on Solo Travel as a Woman
1. Confidence Is Your First Passport
Before you even print that boarding pass, pack some confidence. The world is full of amazing people, places, and experiences. But it is also full of folks who can spot fear from a mile away. Walk tall, ask questions boldly, and remember: you belong anywhere your money and visa take you.
If you act like you have done this before, even when it is your first time, you will earn more respect and avoid unnecessary drama.
2. Research Like a CIA Agent
Girl, Google is your best friend. Don’t land in a new city and start asking strangers, “Where can I find food?” Nah. Know the safe areas, where to stay, local customs (especially dress codes), how their transport works, and what you shouldn’t do. If you are visiting a conservative country like Morocco or Saudi Arabia, dressing modestly may not be optional. It is respect and safety rolled into one.
If a place has a reputation for street harassment, know how to handle it. There are Facebook groups, YouTube channels, and blogs dedicated to solo travel for female travelers. Tap in. Ask questions. Be informed.
3. Stay Somewhere Safe, Not Just Cheap
Budget travel is great, but not at the cost of your peace of mind. Pick hotels or hostels with great reviews (especially from other women), close to town centers or public transport. If it looks cheap and creepy, it probably is.
Avoid dodgy Airbnbs with zero reviews. Also, always let someone know your exact location. Yes, even if it is your nosy auntie who thinks you are “too modern.”
4. Travel Light, Pack Smart
You don’t need seven wigs, sis. Pack clothes that mix and match easily. Carry a scarf or shawl. It can double as a blanket, fashion accessory, or head covering in religious places.
Most importantly, don’t pack valuables you can’t afford to lose. If you must bring them, spread them out: some in your bag, some in your bra (yes, we are going there), some in your shoe. Street smarts matter.
5. Blend In, Don’t Stand Out
No, you don’t have to wear a disguise, but you should avoid being an obvious tourist. Walk with purpose, even if you are lost (you can cry in your hostel later). Don’t flash your phone or designer bag like you are on a Nollywood red carpet. And please don’t tell people you are “traveling alone” unless necessary.
Smile, be friendly, but keep that streetwise part of you alert, like when your mother used to whisper “shine your eyes o” before you left home.

Before you jet out, give your itinerary to a friend, parent, or even that cousin who loves tracking people’s lives. Update them regularly. Better to have someone “overchecking” on you than for nobody to know your last location. Some apps (like Life360 or Google Maps location sharing) can help you stay visible to your people without too much stress.
7. Learn Some Basic Local Words
Even a simple “hello” or “thank you” in the local language can get you better treatment. In some places, locals are more helpful when they see you are trying. Plus, you will avoid sounding like that one tourist who yells in English, expecting everyone to magically understand.
8. Trust Your Gut, Always
If a street, a ride, a conversation, or a situation feels “off,” it probably is. Politely remove yourself. Your instincts are your God-given security system. Whether you’re in Paris, Nairobi, or Cape Town, never silence that inner warning bell.
And no, you don’t owe anyone an explanation for choosing your safety over their convenience.
9. Have a Safety Kit
We are not saying you need pepper spray (though in some places, it is not a bad idea), but carry a mini safety kit. This can include:
- Power bank (don’t get stranded with a dead phone)
- Small flashlight
- Emergency whistle
- Personal alarm
- Extra cash in a hidden pouch
- A local SIM card with data
Trust me, preparedness looks good on you.
10. Have Fun, But Stay Wise
Take the photos. Eat that weird dish. Dance at the local club (if you feel safe). Make new friends. But please, don’t get drunk in unfamiliar places. If you must drink, do it slowly and keep an eye on your glass. No mysterious “my drink was spiked” stories, please.
Also, dating abroad can be exciting. But don’t throw away caution because he has an accent. Carry your pepper spray and your emotional guard in case things get spicy.
Bonus on Solo Travel as a Woman
As a Nigerian woman, you might get extra stares, questions, or assumptions. Some might think you are a student. Others might assume… You are not. Ahem. Ignore them. You are a boss babe on holiday. Walk in your full glory, but always carry proof of funds, hotel bookings, ID, and visa documents, especially in airports. Naija passport holders know how those immigration officers like to “overdo.”
Final Thoughts on Solo Travel as a Woman
Solo travel as a woman is beyond just a trend. It is a movement of freedom, self-discovery, and growth. It teaches you independence, builds confidence, and allows you to live on your terms. Yes, there are risks, but there’s also so much magic. When done right, you will come back with not just photos but stories, inner peace, and maybe a new sense of purpose.
So to every Nigerian woman dreaming of traveling solo: You are not crazy. You are courageous. The world is waiting for you.
Now go and shine, travel queen. But shine wisely.

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