How to be a Seductress Queen – and attract the best man

Seduction in this modern world is beyond stripping yourself off and having a man lust after you, or get him drooling as you skillfully walk through the room. A seductress queen knows when to strike with the right skills and have her man chase after her.

The seductress queen knows what she wants and goes for it. She oozes self-confidence and carries herself with poise. She knows she is a queen, and queens deserve kings to strike a balance. Otherwise, she is heading to a life of frustration. A man who does not know the worth of his lady is sure to make a horrible life out of her. A woman who cannot recognize a king among many men is to blame.

Therefore, as a queen, you do not settle for a commoner or even a slave. Unfortunately, I have seen so many queens selling their birthright for a mere pot of red potage. What a pity!

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Who is a Seductress Queen?

Before I proceed, I am glad to inform you that you are a queen. Now, echo it to yourself. A queen has prestige. If you lack it, you need to get one. A queen chooses whom to mingle with – who to come too close and who to keep at arm’s length. Remember, your network determines your net worth. In all thy getting, get value. Become that woman you always fantasize about. Become a seductress queen.

Okay, I might have taken it too far, but the truth is that I want you to set a higher goal for yourself and ensure you actualize it. Do not settle for less. I quite understand that it might be difficult for some queens to be a seductress. That is why I chose this article to equip for the action. Oh! A seductress queen is an action lady. She is a talk-and-do woman. She does not procrastinate; neither does she wait until tomorrow to do what she is meant to do today.

So, I am here to raise an army of queens who disrupt the status of presenting just sex and food to the man. Tell yourself that you are more than just s*x and food.

You know what? Men of today know how to cook very well. Many men can serve breakfast in bed; it depends on how you made it. Talk about s*x; every lady is born with a v*gina, so a man can as well go to the next-door neighbor to get s*x. And you know what? He can strip her down within a couple of minutes and have her screw him to ecstatic satisfaction.

Then, he walks away as if nothing happened. So, if you are a woman whose only boast is on culinary skills and s*x styles, I am here to bust your bubble, look you in the eye, and tell you that you have nothing to offer a king. Although there are men you can keep with sex and food, don’t forget that quality matters a lot.

How to be a Seductress Queen?

Now, let’s go down to business. Do you want to be a seductress queen? Get yourself armed with the following skills and see if you won’t be the one giving men ultimatum, instead of begging them to please manage you as you are. Here they are:

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Communicate with him using body language.

To be a seductress queen, you need to learn to communicate with him beyond word of mouth. I have seen countless ladies scared to look men in the eye. They are unnecessarily shy and avoid his gaze. Come on, girl! Don’t be shy. Look your man directly in the eye during communication. Hold his gaze; it is a great way to connect and bond with him. Smile. Don’t look timid while communicating with him. Be self-confident. So, square your shoulders and have a great time with the man sitting opposite you. A timid woman makes a boring conversation. Don’t let timidity deny you of a precious time with your king.

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Be mysterious.

Give your man a clue to guess what you are up to. Do not always give him the full package. Let him figure some things out himself. Don’t be that kind of lady who keeps saying, “I am Sandra. I am intelligent. I am a gentle girl. I enjoy sushi with soft drinks. I love children.” This is not how to keep a conversation going.

Let me be frank, I get pissed at a man who keeps saying to a woman, “So, pretty lady, tell me more about yourself.” Don’t start saying everything you know about yourself, just because a guy asked you to. The only guy you owe this allegiance to is a guy sitting opposite you and interviewing you for a job opportunity. By then, you can sell yourself.

Aside from that, tell the guy a few necessary things about yourself and have him figure out the rest. Even in your relationship, play this game occasionally. It gives him something to always think about you, as well as make the relationship an interesting one.

Be an interesting lady to be with.

Have you met some boring guys that after your interaction with them, you go home to laugh at with your sisters and friends? Do not act like them. As a seductress queen, get him to keep coming back to you. How do you do it? By being an interesting lady. In your conversations, always have something positive to contribute.

You might keep up-to-date about sports, interesting places, and trendy news. For example, trending global issues, do well to know something interesting about it. it is a conscious effort to make to keep yourself up to date.

Romance with a guy mentally.

If he is way more intelligent than you, be calm and learn. Ask him curious questions and make him feel so important. Be careful not to award an honor to a dog. That is why you must be intelligent and differentiate between a noisemaker and someone making a point. It takes intelligence to recognize intelligence.

Don’t always play hard-to-get.

Yeah, we are told to play too hard to get but don’t forget that not all guys have the patience. So, play too hard to get, but always check your time to know when to give him the yes.

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Have fun.

Enjoy yourself now. Yeah, I understand you want to get married, but if you focus more on marriage, you might wear yourself out to enjoy your relationship. Learn to spice up your relationship with fun moments.

Set a standard.

At the beginning of your relationship, place your card on the table. Tell the guy what you can or cannot take. You know what? If you do not communicate your standards to him, he will set the rules for you and tell you how to live your life. Then, you will enter bondage and enjoy a hellish relationship. As if that is not enough, you will tag all men as being wicked and a player. You are not serious, girl. Only your man is wicked, and you gave him the power over you.

Now get this straight: any man you communicate your rules to, and he refuses to obey them is not a game. Get him off the hook immediately. Then, ensure you set standards that are realizable. What you cannot tolerate, don’t expect another woman’s son to do so. If you hate an insult, why give it out? Also, if his standards are something only angels can keep, you may consider calling it a day. Certainly, he would meet a lady that won’t mind. But, let that not be you.

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Be independent.

A respected relationship coach said it takes two independent individuals to be interdependent. I can’t agree more. Be a queen who has her own goals. When a man asks you or wonders what you will bring to the table, do not just present to him only a college certificate. Present something that helps you to earn an income as well.

Not just that; ensure you are not doing any job that immediately you get pregnant, you have to stop working. Make sure you have a bigger picture and an accompanying dream. When a man meets you, he should be helping to build on an existing foundation and not from scratch.

Always give yourself a target.

Say, “This year, I will buy a form for a Master’s degree or get some skills to promote my business, or I will leave this job for a more challenging one to remain relevant in life.” a seductress queen does not settle for an average life!

I have seen a forty-something-year-old woman still going from one menial job to another to look for where she would be paid peanuts. In her earlier life, she got married and felt at home because the man was bringing something home. When life demanded more from the marriage, she had to dust her certificate and rush out. Don’t be stuck in life. As a seductress queen, set goals that are bigger than you are, yet realizable, and work towards them.

Make him feel like a king.

Making your man feel like a king is different from making him feel like a god. Pay close attention when you are dealing with a proud person. A proud person feels like a god. See him as a man and give him respect. Yes, make him feel like the only man in the midst of his equal. Never try to talk down on him, particularly if he is gentle. If you have an issue, present it to me in a mature way. Again, if you are angry, allow your temper to cool before talking to him.

Know the kind of man you want.

When you give a holy thing to a dog, it plays with it. Why? It does not recognize holiness. Do you blame the dog? No, sis! Blame yourself for taking something of value to a worthless creature. Therefore, if you are a queen, go for a king. There are many kings out there waiting for the right queen. Make yourself available, but do not cheapen your ware. A man of vision, value, self-respect, wisdom, gratitude, integrity, self-control, and other positive virtues should tickle your fancy.

Since he will ask you what you have to bring to the table, ensure he also has something of value to bring. Two can play the game. If he does not want to be a housewife, he should not be a househusband unless he works remotely from home.

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Dress well.

You are addressed the way you dress. So, do not dress shabbily. Remember we talked about self-confidence at the beginning, right? Now, apply it to your physical appearance. I want guys to look back when you walk past them, not because you are half-clad, but because you have a good dress sense. Dressing well is not about the guy; it is about you, girl. It makes you feel good. If you look at yourself in the mirror, you should see a queen, not a maidservant.

Live your life.

Your life should not revolve around attracting a man. Self-love is beautiful. Crush on yourself. Be happy to be you. Be single and independent. Be positive. Live your life like no man exists. Hey, don’t be rude or negative. But be charming. Be attractive. That is the real personality of a seductress queen.

In conclusion, a seductress queen walks up to the heart of a king, draws him out, and kisses his soul. Then, she walks away and has him chase after her. Never be the one chasing after a guy and begging him to love you. You are more than that! Slave girls can do it, but queens detest it.

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